Gay adoption
...society, with is unacceptable for some people. They, therefore, want to prove that they are normal like other people. Those who are against gay-adoption also talk about influences of being gay on children. They think that gay parents can bring children into their same sex committed relationship, why another group think that the “like father like son” idea dose not always work. Children of homosexuals do not always turn gay. Many of them are straight. Even if they do turn gay, is being gay a problem of living in society? I don’t think so. The ability to deal with problems is also a factor, the anti-gay adopting thinks. Women are good at solving women problems and so do men. For instance, if a 14 years old girl want to ask about dating her crush. Who do you think is better at giving the answer? Who do you think that little girl want to tell the secret problem? For them mom is the answer. In contrast with that group, another group think that gay parent are 10 times better at solving problems because gays have both girl and guy natural abilities. I do agree with this idea because some of my gay friends know a lot better than women about how to deal with girl problems, and of course they know about guy problems as much as men do. For those who support gay-adoption, some foster homes are extremely unhealthy for children, and are often switched from location to location. Thus, children have nowhere to remain in. Don’t you think that we have to get them out of there rather than keep them living in those environments? I think children do not care whether people who will adopt them are gays or not, but what they do care is to get out of there as soon as possible. On the other hand, the anti-gay adopting group thinks that foster homes are the proper places for children to wait for straight couple to adopt them this group dose not care whether those places are healthy or not. Attitude towards gays is another factor concerning gay-adoption. People who think we should not around gay to adopt children think that children would be laughed at if other people know they have gay parents. Children will have not friend. No one wants to hang out with these children because they still cannot accept gay people. Those children will be lonely as a result. Unlike the anti-gay adopting group, another group think that our society is now more opened. Being gay is not a major problem anymore as long as those gay people do not cause problems to other people. If children are able to understand why they have same sex parents, there would be no problem. They may get teased about there gay parents but that is no a major problem. Children get teased for all kinds of reason, but part of our lives is learning to deal with them, don’t you think? All a child needs is love. It dose not matter there parents are gays or straight. What the support gay-adopting group thinks is that gays can provide children well upbringing as good as straight people can. They also point that many normal family are being dysfunctional, and that can give children and imbalanced upbringing why many gay families succeed in raising children. Yet, another group think that gay couples cannot provide well upbringing because they do not have enough time. Gay parents have to deal with what other people think about being gay and it is a big problem. So how will the have enough time to take care of other things besides dealing with attitude towards gays. The crimination is another issue for both groups the first group thinks that gays can be victimized by an intolerant group. It makes children are in danger too because those people may assume that children of homosexuals are more like to turn gay. In contrast, another group think that people who hate gay is just only the minority group of our society. Gay families can move to safe...