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10 Rules of Anal Sex by Jack Morin
Jack Morin, PhD, a San Francisco sex therapist and researcher, is the author of Anal Pleasure and Health.
Anal Eroticism is surrounded by a powerful taboo. Yet millions of men and women - straight, gay and bisexual - are
experimenting with anal sex. ... Thirty-five years
ago, Kinsey stated that the anal region had erotic significance for about half of the population. In a survey of 100,000
Playboy readers, 47 percent of the men and 61 percent of the women admitted to having tried anal intercourse.
Yet the anal taboo inhibits most people from thinking, talking and learning about the sexual use of the anus. Listed here
are the ten things most men and women still do not know about anal sex. ... Anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal sex. ... The most common techniques include touching the anal opening while
masturbating or stimulating a partners anus during intercourse or oral sex.
Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger - their own or a lovers - insinuated into their anal opening and gently
rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the
larger rectum. ...
Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. ... Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.
The belief that anal stimulation, especially intercourse, has to hurt is a persistent and dangerous myth. Just as pain
anywhere in the body indicates that something is wrong, so is the same true of the anal area. ...
When a finger, object or penis is introduced into the anus, the anal muscles go into spasm, as if fighting off an invasion. ...
Maximum anal pleasure requires the elimination of all pain or physical trauma from the anal experience. ... Readiness is a
combination of physical relaxation, usually helped along by plenty of leisurely anal touching, and desire.
Occasionally the anal muscles are relaxes, but the passive partner is still not in the mood. ... Anal sex can be enjoyed even if it has been consistently uncomfortable in the past.
Sufficient desire alone does not necessarily guarantee pleasurable anal sex. Nor is an uncomfortable previous
experience always the reason for a lack of interest in or desire for anal sex.
Chronic anal tension is the most common cause of anal discomfort during sex. ... An ideal time
to explore the anal opening is while taking a shower or bath.
Approximate Word count = 2006
Approximate Pages = 8
(250 words per page double spaced)
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