No Violence No Spanking
No Violence. No Spanking. ... Spanking is one of the most controversial discipline methods. On one side of the debate are parents who believe it is acceptable to spank their children because spanking may relieve their frustration and stop misbehavior briefly. On the other side are those who think that children should never be spanked, for spanking may hurt children in many ways. ... Oppositely, spanking children has many bad effects in the long term, such as leaving kids with physical problems, resulting in emotional problems, increasing numbers of violent criminals in our society, and making children antisocial. More or less, spanking, slapping and hitting children as punishment may be physically dangerous to them. Some parents spank their children when they are very angry, and over spanking often occurs. ... Even relatively moderate spanking can be physically dangerous. ... Some children become paralyzed through never damage from spanking, and some have died after mild paddling. ... Those parents who have a bit consciousness about compassion, stop spanking children right away. Another reason not to spank children is that spanking children can also backfire in emotion development. ... To make a child experience pain, spanking has been linked to low self-esteem, depression and low educational attainment, for it destroys childrenĄ¯s ability to learn and sets the stage for future emotional problems.